“Trustworthy Leadership”
Keynote Address
Institute on College Student Values
Florida State University
February 4, 2005
What a pleasure it is to be here with this group of pioneers and
explorers -- researchers, practitioners, professionals from a range
of disciplines, working at the frontier (some might say across the
abyss) that separates academic and student life on college campuses,
working it from both sides of the street with a vision of the whole.
The very duality of this conception of our collective work is, of
course, a chronic and debilitating problem that many of you have spent
your careers addressing with creative and inventive initiatives and
collaborations.
It is you who have been building the bridges and the alliances that
recognize students as whole human beings: mind, body, heart, and spirit
evolving and growing through the life-shaping and (we hope) life-transforming
period of late adolescence and early adulthood. It is you who understand
how vital – and how improbable -- it has become in our wired,
and transactional, and competitive consumer culture to convince today’s
young people that it’s worth their while to dwell for a time
with the confusing “big questions,” and to entertain the
demanding “worthy dreams” captured by Sharon Parks in
her landmark study of how we might mentor young adults for lives of
meaning, purpose and faith.
So I am here to pay tribute to the value of your work, and I’m
grateful for the privilege to be here with you, to learn with you,
and to reflect with you on this work of yours -- this work of ours
-- that strikes me as never more important than it is right now, as
our nation becomes more and more polarized and our world less and
less willing, or able, to engage “the other,” a task that
I expect you would agree has become the most pressing challenge of
our time – to move beyond tolerance of difference to true and
deep empathy with that which is other and alien.
A few days after the turn of the millennium, I participated in a
televised roundtable discussion with James Billington, the Librarian
of Congress, an insightful scholar and a thoughtful man who, a few
weeks later, delivered a prophetic speech. It was nine months before
9/11, and he said this:
“We [Americans] have … a profound special need to understand
better the three great cultural belts of Asia – each of which
is now aggressively asserting itself on the world scene: the Confucian-
and Buddhist-based cultures of East Asia, the Hindu-based cultures
of South Asia, and the long corridor of Islamic nations stretching
from Indonesia through Central and West Asia to North Africa. Each
of these worlds contains more than one billion people who speak
languages and profess beliefs that few of us have even begun to
understand.
But if you do not learn to listen to people when they are whispering
their prayers, you increase the risk of meeting them later when
they are howling their war cries.”
In a similar vein, just last month, the United Nations issued its
new report on the “Millennium Development Goals.” Produced
by Columbia economist Jeffrey Sachs for UN Secretary General Kofi
Annan, the report projects that we could halve extreme poverty around
the world by 2015, and eliminate it by 2025, if we could mobilize
the world’s richest countries (including the US, Japan, and
Germany) to more than double their international aid. Annan said that
the goals of the project – which some characterize as unattainable
-- are “not utopian but eminently achievable.” Sachs has
been arguing for years that the necessary resources are available
if the richest nations would make this goal a priority.
And in Davos just last week at the World Economic Forum, Bill Clinton
and Bill Gates discussed the worsening AIDS crisis in Africa. “You
want to go save four million lives,” Clinton said bluntly, “give
them the medicine. It’s not rocket science and it’s so
cheap compared to everything else all these rich countries do.” He’s
right and his honesty is refreshing and galvanizing, now that he is
free of the burdens of positional leadership, burdens under which
his legacy imploded for lack of an inner compass and the disciplines
of self-awareness and self-management that so many of you are working
so well to instill in your students, knowing that they are going to
need their own inner teachers perhaps more than any other competencies
or skills.
If addressing the world’s most pressing problems is not rocket
science, and not simply resources, what is it then? It’s our
own ability as leaders to discover our solid ground, to truly hear
the whispered prayers that are building to war cries, to sense that
time is short and to trust that our lives can matter. It’s summoning
the discipline to focus attention in directions that don’t feel
so good, facing moral dilemmas in all their complexity. It’s
seeing past the self-interest of short-term electoral and business
cycles and cultivating the imagination, and the generosity of spirit – in
ourselves and those we touch -- to keep our eyes focused and yet not
to lose heart, to open our hearts to sorrow without being paralyzed,
to find in the world’s suffering our bonds of humanity.
The theme you’ve selected for your conference, then -– how
we can support our students in becoming passionate and powerful moral
leaders -- couldn’t be more important, or more timely. Indeed,
it seems prescient, really, for your organizers could not have known
how the fall semester would unfold through the divisive national presidential
election and, on the day after Christmas, would end with the horrific
images of death and destruction across those very regions of which
Dr. Billington warned us we are so dangerously ignorant.
The tragedy of the Christmas tsunami – as awful as it was --
has brought into bold relief an even deeper, more systemic, and more
portentous test of our collective will – the widening gap between
rich and poor, north and south (the fact that three billion of the
earth’s
6.4 billion people subsist on roughly two dollars a day), and the
degree to which we privileged few on the planet are ignoring and exacerbating
the misery of the billions who are innocent victims of war, genocide,
starvation, and preventable disease and death around the globe. This
widening gap is a shame and a moral catastrophe as we all know and
it’s also a menacing threat. Yet we look the other way and go
on about our lives, wishing we weren’t so busy, distracted,
and starved for time. Or at least that’s what I do; I’ll
speak for myself.
Can there be any doubt, then, that we need our graduates – this
new American generation of such great privilege and promise -- to
become activists in the world, potent advocates for human rights,
confident leaders willing to take risks in the pursuit of intellectual
honesty, of freedom to disagree, of justice and fairness, global citizenship,
mutual responsibility … all those virtues and values you’ll
be taking about in the concurrent sessions of this conference.
The clear urgency of our need for leadership explains in part, I
think, the extraordinary range of programs and initiatives that fit
under the rubric of the topic we’re here together to explore.
In fact, part of what is daunting about this conference is that there
are so many disparate and disconnected entry points into it, so many
corners within the academy in which aspects or elements of our questions
are being raised and pursued; questions about:
• the role of religion and spirituality in higher education
(and corollary questions about the role of spirituality in leadership);
• how to teach today’s students to become engaged, responsible
and effective citizens of their nation and the world;
• how to educate young people to think well about their values,
to make moral choices, to be moral agents;
• how to prepare young adults for healthy and fulfilling lives,
lives imbued with meaning, purpose and hope.
At the most fundamental and intriguing level are the epistemological
questions that define how we teach and what students learn. Parker
Palmer has argued eloquently that the myth of objectivism, which has
dominated Western thinking and structured our consciousness, distances
the knower from what is known, separates our inner lives from the
objects of our study, deforms us morally and distorts our understanding
by denying us the opportunity to connect our small stories to the
large stories of the disciplines.
But as the established disciplines have been challenged by alternative
epistemologies – from feminism, multiculturalism, the new physics,
Eastern and indigenous wisdom traditions and philosophies -- the duality
between objectivism and subjectivism (between truth and reason on
one hand; art and imagination on the other) has been undermined. New
syntheses are emerging that don’t send us back to hopelessly
radical subjectivity (where everyone’s opinion is always equally
valid and true) while they do bring the knowing and feeling and sensing
self back into the equation.
We are not going to learn how to engage “the other” – that
is, understand and bridge the profound differences that divide and
define us – unless we are willing to bring our curiosity and
our full selves into an unfamiliar meaning system – an alternative
epistemology -- and try as best we can to make our own sense of it.
If we can expose our students to alternative methodologies for making
sense of empirical observation, we can perhaps help them stay connected
to a world “out there” that is also “in here,” a
world of which they are an integral part, a world to which they have
legitimate emotional connections and enduring moral obligations, a
world they can love.
For, as Parker Palmer has written, “a knowledge that springs
from love will implicate us in the web of life; it will wrap the knower
and the known in compassion, in a bond of awesome responsibility as
well as transforming joy; it will call us to involvement, mutuality,
accountability.” The contemplative practices from Eastern wisdom
traditions are part of this epistemological expansion that offers
students a way to reconnect to their inner lives and to find the reliable
sources that animate their sense of social engagement. The inspiring
work on mindfulness meditation being advanced by our colleagues from
Naropa University, Jon Kabat-Zinn and others, Ellen Langer’s
work on “mindful learning,” the support of the Fetzer
Institute for bringing contemplative practice into classrooms and
course syllabi, and other such initiatives are highly germane to the
questions we’re exploring here about how we can educate our
students to be effective moral leaders.
A second entry point into our topic is through the curriculum and
in the classroom. It’s obvious that the problem of specialization
and fragmentation of knowledge is straining the orthodox structures
of the academy. Many of us have been reassessing the role of general
education at the undergraduate level. All of us are wondering where
the proliferation of interdisciplinary studies will ultimately lead.
More than a decade ago, Gerald Graff was arguing that we ought to “teach
the conflicts” between the disciplines, rather than leaving
to students the task of trying to figure out for themselves how to
integrate knowledge across wide and mysterious disciplinary divides.
From here it is a short step to questions about pedagogy, questions
such as those being advanced by Carnegie Vice President, Pat Hutchins
and others, about how we can instill in our students what she calls “pedagogical
intelligence.” If we can draw on the great strides being made
in our understanding of the brain and how it learns in order to guide
students systematically to “reflect on and assess their own
experiences as learners,” she suggests, we can perhaps help
them develop the ability to be informed, discerning, and “active
agents of their own learning.” And isn’t that, when we
think about it, our very raison d’etre: providing students with
the wherewithal to become lifelong learners?
The hope of overcoming fragmentation, specialization and isolation
by transforming higher education through integrative approaches, is,
as David Scott has often argued, a “powerful movement” driven
by an increasingly widespread and uncompromising search many of us
are pursuing for “greater meaning and wholeness” in our
lives. The question of how to make this integration a central part
of the college experience -- through first-year seminars, case-method
teaching, capstone experiences, and/or much more radical departures
that would make the “scholarship of teaching and learning” a
central concern of the faculty – is intimately related to our
question of how to educate tomorrow’s leaders.
A third entry point into our conversation is the expansion of student
activities and social engagement away from campus: community service,
experiential learning, study abroad, internship programs. Many of
us are being pushed by our students to recall that the mission statements
of most of the nation’s colleges and universities imply in one
way or another, and often explicitly state, that we exist to prepare
our graduates, as Wellesley’s founder quaintly said, “for
lives of noblest usefulness.”
Over the past decade or two, many of our institutions have been strengthening
our support systems for internships, volunteerism, and service learning.
We’ve been encouraging our faculty to consider the possibility
that their students are not wrong when they insist that much of their
most profound learning is happening outside the classroom. Campus
Compact is one organization that has done much to advance this important
agenda.
At Wellesley, after hearing our students we created a new tradition,
an annual day-long celebration called the Tanner Conference, dedicated
to exploring the relationships between the liberal arts classroom
and student involvement in an increasingly diverse and interdependent
world. We suspend classes for a full day in the fall and all of us – students,
faculty, staff, alumnae, trustees -- attend dozens of concurrent panels,
roundtable discussions, performances and presentations by students
who have prepared thoughtful reflections on their off-campus learning
experiences. They all have faculty sponsors who have helped them think
through how best to represent what they have drawn from these experiences,
how they have been changed by them, how they affected the settings
in which they worked, and how they can integrate those experiences
with their classroom learning. They astonish us with the depth and
sophistication of their insights, as I’m sure your students
do you when given a chance.
When we have the privilege of hearing our students describe their
commitments to a wider community, it’s evident that their motivations
go so far beyond a sense of obligation or the desire to garner practical
experience and build a resume. There are much deeper yearnings percolating
in the student culture and there’s much more we can be doing
to understand those yearnings more fully and to encourage them more
effectively.
The fourth entry point – the one most of you inhabit and shape – is
the busy and hectic world of on-campus life outside the classroom.
And, oddly enough, what I find myself wanting to say to you this morning
in response to your question to me about how we can invite spirit
into this sacred work of ours -- educating our students to be moral
leaders -- is not so much about retreating to our pillows or pews
for contemplative practice (as much as I do personally treasure and
depend on retreats for silence). Rather I want to speak to you about
how we can bring to our improvisational work of managing the complex
force fields in which our students are learning and growing an awareness
that it will often be in the hot and tense and even painful moments
of sharp-elbowed conflict, or heartbreaking grief, that something
that feels like “spirit” will quietly enter the space
and light with us for a time while we find our bearings.
The most unlikely seeming moment – when people are confused
and frightened, or angry and at each others’ throats – is
often the place where a spark of true meaning can ignite. I’m
not entirely sure why this is so, but I suspect it’s partly
because these are the circumstances that push us up against the tender
growing edges that we can studiously hide until we find ourselves
under duress. These are the moments in which we discover our differences
and, in that discovery, learn more about who we really are.
So I want to talk about our own leadership – yours and mine – and
to offer a few principles and practices that we have been evolving
informally at Wellesley, principles for taking up our conflicts in
a way that seeks to turn them into crucibles for learning. When we’re
lucky, I think we do create a container in which our students can
safely and genuinely experience confusion and conflict in all its
complexity, and can grow through and with it to greater wisdom and
maturity. At least I hope that’s what we’ve been doing,
at least some of the time. But uncertainty is part of the process
and we’re living, not answering, questions, living the questions
in Rilke’s sense, as a form of spiritual leadership.
That these are perilous times to be making any claims about one’s
proficiency as a leader is evident all around us: in the steady procession
of graphic images of leaders being carted off in handcuffs, or otherwise
toppled from power, leaders who lost their moral bearings, took shortcuts,
broke or bent the rules, violated their followers’ trust – powerful,
successful leaders from virtually every sector of American society:
the clergy, corporations, politics, athletics, broadcast and print
journalism, entertainment, publishing, the law, education … on
and on, a veritable parade of horrors. Jean Lipman Blumen, a Wellesley
alumna who wrote an upbeat book some years ago on “connective
leadership” has a new one out called “The Allure of Toxic
Leaders,” a sign of the times.
And here we are in Florida asking ourselves what we can do to prepare
the next generation to bring moral purpose and commitment to their
leadership when it is their turn, which it will be soon. For starters,
I’m sure you’ll agree, we can do our best to offer those
students leadership that is worthy of their trust. And it is not easy;
we should not delude ourselves, but I think we should try to live
at least the following five commitments in our leadership roles.
First and foremost, we should question ourselves. Effective leadership comes
from an inner core of integrity and yet is not fixed, stubborn, or implacable.
Leaders we trust are open to our thoughtful influence, They are aware that
they cannot possess all the answers because they can have only one perspective.
They are eager to hear responsible critique, and the viewpoints of others.
When leaders inspire us, we experience them as consistently themselves – yes
-- we sense in them a solid self-confidence, but not one that walls others
out. Clear about who they are, they can open themselves to others. They stay
attuned to their inner truth through disciplines that keep them honest, knowing,
as the ancients did, that the first and most demanding obligation of a leader
is the Socratic injunction to “know thyself.” Yeats wrote that “we
make out of the quarrel with others, rhetoric, but of the quarrel with ourselves,
poetry.” Trustworthy leaders are poets; they quarrel with themselves.
Second, since even if we know ourselves, we can’t know all we need to
know from our own limited perspective, we need to establish partnerships as
the basic units for accomplishing work. And they have to be reliable partnerships,
which means investing time and energy in preserving their integrity. Reliable
partnerships help prevent the distortions of information that often result
from perceived or real imbalances of power – distortions produced by
projections on to the leader and/or the tendency to shield her from bad news.
Trustworthy leaders choose their partners wisely, for a range of perspectives
and for a sense of shared core values. They negotiate the common understandings
at the heart of these partnerships, which they attend to regularly, and integrate
into a larger understanding of the goals they are pursuing.
To be trustworthy leaders, then, we need to make a serious commitment to a
network of partnerships – including with our students -- that are honest
and effective, solid and sophisticated and above all remain capable of receiving
candid critique. Enlisting others – and not just loyal insiders -- in
these mutual relationships becomes a major part of the leader's task: inviting
a mutual exploration of what happened when things go awry, coming together
to assess behaviors that may be undermining the alliance, taking explicit steps
to reinforce shared commitments, revisiting the inspiration from which the
collaboration draws its meaning. If we can strive to be such leaders, we can
earn our students’ trust.
Third, I believe that trustworthy leaders consciously resist the use of force
except as a last resort. Leadership is by definition the exercise of power,
and leaders are constantly called upon to deploy their power on one side or
another of high-stakes disputes. As tempting as it is to wade in with what
looks like decisiveness, in our hearts we really know that interventions imposed
from on high seldom yield enduring peace.
Refusing to resort to force is never easy. It’s painful to look like
a wimp, a judgment our culture is quick to apply. But it’s even more
painful to watch disputes smolder and re-ignite in debilitating cycles of repetition
and escalation. Avoiding the use of force reflects a conception of leadership
as nonpartisan, and of the leader as the person whose effectiveness depends
on hearing all sides of a dispute, in essence taking in the many perspectives
that comprise the whole. If we become captive of one or more of these voices,
then soon we are waging a war within ourselves. As leaders, our task is to
create conditions within which disputes can be explored and transformed at
the most local level where those most directly affected can assume responsibility
and discover their own resourcefulness.
Fourth, knowing that differences of opinion, perspective, and world-view are
a crucial part of life and learning, we will be leaders our students can trust
if we truly value differences, not only as an ethical imperative and a measure
of respect for others (although surely for these reasons), but also as a unique
creative resource. In any group, organization, or system, the voices from the
margins hold the buried wisdom that can alert us to our self-deceptions.
There are aspects of any campus culture to which resistance is a healthy response.
We need a new language, then, about how we understand differences, and a new
kind of leadership that will engage identity struggles in diverse communities
by appreciating their complexity and messiness, digging beneath the power dimensions,
and opening to profounder meanings and deeper human connections. Only when
we have leaders who understand healthy conflict in its inevitability and its
productivity will we begin to develop the skills to mine it well. We ourselves
need to hone those skills – and that tolerance for complexity -- so that
our students can. And it’s never easy.
That’s why, fifth, and finally, in our effort to be leaders our students
can trust, we need to create communities that can function as sustaining circles
of mutual support. Leaders need places to which they can retreat to grapple
with pressures and doubts and the assaults on confidence no one should have
to confront alone. I know from years of experience how isolating leadership
can be, how sudden, wide, and unnerving sometimes the swings can be from elation
to despair, how often, even now, I lose and find myself again – my moorings,
my equilibrium, my commitment, my heart.
If we can practice our leadership within supportive communities – if
we can build and bind those communities -- then we can begin to define and
experience leadership as a collective project that derives its power and authority
from a cooperative attachment to mutually-defined commitments and values. Having
done so, we can perhaps free our student leaders of the illusion that they
could or should try to accomplish their goals on their own – to trust
that they don’t have to carry the whole load, that they can co-create
with each other, that they need do only what they can do, and bring only what
is theirs to give.
I was interested to discover in preparing to come down here how clear
and articulate Wellesley’s student leaders are about this communal
aspect of their leadership. As I was assembling ideas for this talk,
I decided to ask a group of our student leaders to spend some time
with me discussing the values they try to embody in their leadership.
(I thought I should hear from the experts). We had a lively discussion
that could have gone on for days (except that they were in the middle
of final exams) and if you haven’t had occasion to ask your
student leaders to tell you about the values they are bringing to
their work, I commend the exercise to you as a terrific morale booster.
About 20 students joined me in this discussion, mostly house presidents
and members of our multi-faith council. I told them I would be speaking
here and what the topic was and said I wanted a reality check to be
sure that what I had to say was consistent with their experience as
campus leaders. They talked passionately about building community,
respecting differences, modeling integrity, and the gratification
of serving a cause larger than themselves, about pressures they face,
especially in times of conflict, inspiration they draw from one another,
and the comfort they find in the “support networks” and
advisors to whom they know they can turn, as well as the knowledge
that “people have been through this before and we can get through
it too.”
About half-way through our conversation one student from the multi-faith
council looked intently at me and asked, “What is this conference
again? Who will you be talking to?” She thought I might be getting
the wrong impression from “hearing all this rosiness. You have
to know,” she said, “that there are lots of people on
this campus who don’t feel as we do, in fact, who feel the opposite.” She
said the first year students “arrive with enthusiasm and a deep
desire to become part of the community. We watch them come bounding
up the hallway in the dorm,” she said, “and see them run
head-on into the cynicism and alienation of upper class students.” She’s
right, of course, and as sure as I am that we are providing our students
a great education, I’m equally sure that we are letting them
down in important ways – not feeding their yearning to be living
the biggest ontological and existential questions they see unfolding
around them and don’t know quite how to embrace, attending chiefly
to their minds when their hearts (and ours) are being broken by events
in the world.
So I was as encouraged by that abrupt shift in our conversation as
I was by anything else I heard from the students that day. We need
to keep reminding ourselves how vital it is to maintain that habit
of skepticism -- as perhaps the ultimate test of whether our leadership
should be trusted, indeed of how fully we can trust ourselves. It’s
when we let our guards down and allow our differences and doubts to
surface that something authentic and original can begin to emerge,
tentatively, in the spaces between us. And I’ve found that it’s
often in these fleeting and complicated moments that the heart and
mind can come into synchrony, pointing to altogether novel educational
possibilities.
On our campus, those openings tend to happen, typically, in various
charged domains: in disagreements over money and resources; in moments
of failure, grief, and loss; in struggles over race and difference,
or religion and spirituality, or sexuality and gender, or the law
and public image; in power struggles of all sorts. I don’t have
to tell you about campus conflicts and crises, I know; what a juicy
list we could assemble together if we had the time and the inclination.
Ours are precipitated by internal forces, sometimes, and sometimes
by external events; often they arise as a local campus echo of something
that is brewing in the larger world. When Rodney King was beaten,
racial tensions flared on campuses everywhere. Ever since 9/11 and
the USA Patriot Act, our students and faculty have been testing the
limits of free speech with a bizarre parade of controversial speakers.
The Iraq war and the latest presidential election split us along political
lines. When Massachusetts led the way last year on same-sex marriage,
the LGTB community felt new pressure on the campus.
These conflicts tend to escalate quickly and to attach to institutional
values. They rekindle unresolved issues about who is in and who is
out. They arouse reactions throughout the college community, in many
inter-connected sub-communities across the institution and in cyberspace
where they move so quickly it takes our breath away. The multiplicity
of voices triggers all sorts of untoward interaction effects. Groups
and individuals begin to orient and coalesce around the incident and
this creates many diffuse centers of power, and much confusion and
ardent opinion about who should be doing what. Authority is contested,
and leadership tested, throughout the system. Everything feels as
though it is speeding up, adrenalin is rushing, and the stakes can
feel very high.
The most important informal principle we have evolved when this occurs
is to stop and ask questions, which is harder than it might sound,
given the intensity of the pressure to do something, anything -- and
fast. The questions are pretty straightforward, but the answers are
anything but: Where are we? What is this? Where have we seen it before?
How is it new? What are its meanings in various parts of the college?
Is it significant in terms of the opportunities it presents, the risks
it entails, the meanings it evokes -- past, present and future?
We assume that the meanings are specific to the moment. They are
multiple and contested, always, depending on whose perspective one
takes. We assume that every incident like this contains all of its
history and all of its future possibility, even if they are blocked
from view in the heat of the moment; we pause to wonder were it fits
in that stream of time. We’ve learned also that the process
of probing for meanings can be very rich if we allow ourselves to
draw on multiple ways of knowing – thinking, analyzing, feeling,
sensing, remembering, imagining, grieving. It’s not purely analytical
although analysis has a clear place, and the more we can remain open
to our intuitive and creative faculties, and can listen for metaphors,
the more we will see and comprehend.
We know that the most effective process for discovering these layers
of meaning is through interactive and iterative dialogues, and that
if we undertake them sincerely and openly – and with patience
-- we can sometimes find our way to something utterly new. We assume
that individual voices speak, and play functions, for the system as
a whole and we listen carefully for a variety of voices and the competing
values they represent. In our key partnerships we check in with each
other frequently so we can align around our values together as well
as define and allocate specific tasks and roles. We begin (but never
end) with the local site and the precipitating incident where the
conflict initially arose.
An indispensable part of this process of organizing around our values
and tasks are the leaders’ own internal alignments within themselves
(ourselves). It’s easy to be blown off course during what feels
like a stormy conflict. We see this internal check-in as essential
work and we invest time and institutional resources in enabling it
to happen. When we’re in the vortex of one of these situations,
we convene as a group regularly, and a number of us stay in close
touch with an outside organizational consultant, Richard S. Nodell,
with whom we’ve been working for many years.
The leadership team fans out into the wider system, listening for
insights and encouraging others (faculty, students, staff, trustees)
to take up their particular roles and responsibilities, not as stakeholders
to be managed but as fellow stewards of the community who can help
mine the learning opportunities embedded in the conflict or crisis.
This step recapitulates the earlier meaning-making during the initial
discovery process, and deepens our understanding through expanded
dialogue.
As the pressure begins to dissipate, we try to remember to stop
and take stock, hoping to capture and crystallize the retained meaning
of the incident. Our goal is not to “move on” (with resentments
still simmering) but to “carry forward,” with institutional
history claimed and retained. We take time to check in with those
who were most actively involved, to unpack the incident, digest its
full meaning, and examine, as grist for learning, the mistakes we
inevitably made. When we stand in the middle of the chaos, we don’t
expect to know or control very much.
After an incident like this, I invariably find myself filled with
admiration and gratitude for my colleagues – and for our student
leaders – who bring such energy, wisdom and heart to our work
of community building. And, after the fact, I frequently have the
impression that our partnerships have deepened and our possibilities
for growth – our own and that of the college as a whole -- have
taken a quantum leap forward. That’s because these moments of
stress and conflict contain the information about basic differences
among us, differences that make us human but also vulnerable, suspicious
and guarded.
The painful identity struggles that surface in times of crisis or
conflict often reflect social and spiritual estrangement from the
mainstream campus culture. Meeting them as the power struggles that
they appear to be invites solutions that promote consumerism. We scramble
to find more resources for a marginalized group -- another cultural
advisor, new space in the curriculum or on the campus -- so that its
members can feel seen and appreciated. Those material and political
accommodations may buy time and temporary peace, but they fail to
address the deeper spiritual questions that lie at the root of the
problem, which then goes underground until the next eruption. They
turn a deaf ear to the whispered prayers that precede the threatened
war cries, when we need our ears attuned to both.
In closing, then, it’s clear that effectively addressing the
challenges I outlined at the beginning of this talk is going to require
all the wisdom and all the patience we as an educated and advanced
democratic society can muster. We are going to have to develop the
ability to collaborate and communicate with fluency across a wide
range of cultures, races, religions, and socioeconomic groups. We
are going to have to learn to appreciate and skillfully use conflict
as a creative intellectual force for mining what we know from our
disagreements and differences, across the country and around the world.
We are going to need the grace and the generosity of spirit to design
and sustain communities of meaning and hope, communities that will
offer all their members opportunities to learn and grow, to make contributions
and to be seen and recognized for who they are and what they bring.
We are going to need men and women of good will, and of subtle skill,
to be building such communities, here and around the world, with all
deliberate speed. The hour is late, the work is hard, and the stakes
are high, but so are the satisfactions, as you well know.
In that spirit, I would like to leave you with a poem, followed by
a few moments of silence to gather us together before we disperse
for the break. We can think of it as a kind of secular invocation
for the day. Some of you may know this poem. It’s by Pablo Neruda,
and it’s called “Keeping Quiet.”
Now we will count to twelve
and we will all keep still.
This one time upon the earth,
let’s not speak any language,
let’s stop for one second,
and not move our arms so much.
It would be a delicious moment,
without hurry, without locomotives,
all of us would be together
in a sudden uneasiness.
The fishermen in the cold sea
would do no harm to the whales
and the peasant gathering salt
would look at his torn hands.
Those who prepare green wars,
wars of gas, wars of fire,
victories without survivors,
would put on clean clothing
and would walk alongside with their brothers
in the shade, without doing a thing.
What I want shouldn’t be confused
with final inactivity;
life alone is what matters,
I want nothing to do with death.
If we weren’t unanimous
about keeping our lives so much in motion,
if we could do nothing for once,
perhaps a great silence would
interrupt this sadness,
this never understanding ourselves
and of threatening ourselves with death,
perhaps the earth is teaching us
when everything seems to be dead
and then everything is alive.
Now I will count to twelve
and you keep quiet and I’ll go.
Thank you so much for having me here and for hearing me out.
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